You came and gone...

You bad, you have came in to our hearts and left us just like that...



You came in quietly and you gone quietly.



You broke into our hearts and you took away precious things.



Yes, I hate U.



Yes, I curse U.







A desperate human broke into 0806 on 17th Feb, and made the houseowners so unsecure. Not this one la, he is searching for fingerprints.




Ladies have lodged a police report immediate after the stupid and annoying incidents.





Stupid thief has injured himself and left the blood mark. Served him right! Too bad, Malaysia does not have a complete blood bank. My colleagues were so happy that they thought this could helped to put the thief to jail. Arghhh................



My housemate KO helped to buy the padlock and replaced broken glass.

Everything fixed on Friday. All of the ladies suspected the neighbour is the culprit. I have been staying for few months bo tai chi (nothing happened in Hokkien)....But, we have no evidents to prove... !@#^&....




Forget about those unhappy things, February is also quite a busy month.

This is because we have 1 birthday boy and birthday gal in Feb.

We have these for our Birthday gal ~ Lee Tyng. Forget to take photo with her neh. Wish her all the best. ^-^




The other one is VTCW's birthday. Took photo with him and KCST, but the photos are left in company pc. You know, i only blog during free time... Free as in weekend lor... or after work lor...

I will only surf for useful website during working hours, such as: reading some good articles like: [1] The Servant: A Simple Story About the True Essence of Leadership. 僕人：領導啟示錄 [2] Time Management from business weekly magazine ~ if you think you are not a businessman so you do not need to read this business magazine then you may not a flexible and open minded person, it can be useful in your work and family life), listening to some great songs (online and offline). Take this oportunity to thank KCST for those offline songs, even though she threaten me that 1 song RM3 ..... =.=

To all: How are you doing in february 2009? I hope is a productive one! Spending time with family, read some good books, have some nice workouts, and most important one is keep those negative thoughts and people away!

SINGLE and SATISFIED

Why is it that your best friend could be in the relationship from hell, your cousin could be in an uneventful marriage, but people still feel sorry for you for being single? Is something wrong here? Single life can be the most exciting time of your life.What's wrong with being single?



Visit any bookstore and you'll find dozens of books about relationships; how to keep them together, how to grieve the loss of a loved one, how to find and keep the "perfect" mate, how to satisfy your lover sexually, and the list goes on and on. Rarely will you find books on being single unless they relate to healing some aspect of yourself in preparation for a relationship.

The most annoying is ~ friends, family, and coworkers love to set singles up with blind dates (and we all know how satisfying those are). The message couldn't be clearer. It's not okay to be alone. You know who you are.... ya, is you!


Being single allows us to do what we want, when we want, and with whom we want without having to answer to anyone. Being single allows us to take full responsibility for paying our bills, cleaning and decorating, planning our activities, and entertaining ourselves. It allows us the time to sit quietly and comfortly in couch, to run naked around the living room, oops, haha.. This is because we have more time on our hands and are not avoiding looking at ourselves by focusing our energies on someone else.

Dun worry, i will still say yes to every opportunity to learn, grow and meet new people. It's best to go and branch out. Networking is essential to this point of life.

I am grateful for what I have. After the grieving period, I focus on what Ido have for example, good health and a good support system of family and friends, and a good career and additional side incomes I earn by being a Nuskin distributor. Well, one must have a productive day, and learn to love ourselves and also our loved one.

I realise many of us did not pay much attention to our family members. They do not deserve your time? Your warm hug? Your warm concern? I tell you They do! They deserve it! You spent so much attention on your dog, your internet, your partners, your job; spend sometime for them, for god sake.

I don't have to be dating somebody to have a intimate and fulfilling relationship with them. However, I am not afraid to invest myself in deep relationships with other people.


I decide myself if there are aspects of my life or my personality that I would like to change and do it. I am my best evaluator. I don't need to listen to those people who tell me that I am single because I am too "picky", or too old to meet someone else.

I am thinking about all the things I can do because i am now single. I could take off and go travelling without discussing it with somebody else. I can watch TV all day without being called lazy. I don't actually have to do these things but, sometimes, just the knowledge that I could, ya, this is enough to make me feel great.


=.= I have declined 2 dates on valentine's day, am I mad or what...

Resume Work

Today marks the second week of working after CNY break.

Foooooo..... lots of thinking, lots of eating.

It's time to work, no matter what happens in future.


Cheers!

Sepang Gold Coast

Pa suggested to go to seaside for a walk when we departed from klang heading to port dickson. Actually he wanted to bring his precious baby ren chuan there lor. **cheh** ..ha ha..



Heard of Australia Gold Coast, never heard of Sepang Gold Coast lor.



Sepang Gold Coast is in mid of constructing a Golden Palm Tree Water Villas.

Can you imagine it? Well, it should be looked like this in future...
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TA DA............

Nice or not?


Located within 25 minutes of the famous Sepang F1 race track and Kuala Lumpur International airport, access is simple for visitors from all corners of the world.

Activities to be found along the seaside.

Many still prefer to picnic...




Swim swim...



Local goodies to be sold at the seaside.



We were surprised that this stage is built on the beach.


Beloved dad and mum...




Pa, ask you to smile, not laugh out loud.... hahaha...




Dad is buying us ice-cream!



Beloved nephew trying out first sip of ice-cream. ^-^




We headed to Port Dickson after we took some photos and had our ice-cream.


Nice place.

真正的友誼

人的一生中，你會遇到很多不同的人.

最近的我，对朋友的意义，变得有点模糊了。。



以前，听过佩儿说过她自己：看起来朋友很多，知心的没几个 ～



当时的我，噗之以鼻， 心想哪有可能，但随着年纪越来越大， 生活圈子越来越小， 把朋友越看越重。。。对朋友的意义，变得有点模糊了。。



以下引用的article， 共勉之。。。。。。



酒肉朋友常不能持久,只有真正交心才能享有恆久的友誼。友誼的法則是自然道德法則中偉大永恆的一種。我們卻以短暫的甜蜜視之。友誼是造物主果園中生長最緩慢的一種果實,須以數載春秋待之,我們卻不能以純潔的心靈尋求友誼,反常以劣質的熱情滿足自我的需求。我不願小心翼翼地維護友誼。真正的友誼並非玻璃或雪花般脆弱,它們應該是堅固無比的。真正的友誼是一種緊密不虛矯的結合,經得起任何考驗。在人生的旅程中,友情滋潤了所有其他的人際關係。年輕的日子裡,分贈禮物時、鄉間漫步時固然容易維持友誼,但是在艱困的日子裡、發生海難時、貧困或迫害中卻同樣得見真情,朋友交往中常常併發出機智的火花或激動的狂喜。好友們彼此以智慧、勇氣與和諧美化並昇華人生中的日常瑣事。我們絕不應該疏忽地令友誼歸於平淡或一成不變,而應隨時注意發揮創意使其旋律益發優美。


你觉得呢？

Went back to hometown ~ banting ~

2nd day of CNY. Yes, we will go back Banting (a small town near Kuala Langat, Selangor) to continue to celebrate our CNY.

My beloved nephew is sitting quietly ~ watching tv while waiting for adults (us) to pack and load our belongings to our cars.

Pa: Woi, faster lor... let's go!

Baby ren chuan:~ Yay, go go go... daddy, your car key is here.

Took pic before depart. Wei, ren chuan, dun show pissed off face ler... =.=

Lucky bro is able to make him laugh. Haha.

Both bros are busy packing and checking before we head off. Ya, we will be back after few days.

Locking door, and yes, time to balik kampung!

Gathered at 8th uncle's house as usual. Spent 4 days 3 nights there.

Baby ren chuan is happily playing around.

This is my 8th uncle. He is carrying baby San Zhi ~ my little cousin bro.

Visited uncle #9 too. His house is located at Kota Kemuning.

Mum, Ellie and baby ren chuan posing in front of uncle's house.

We went to 4th auntie's house which is located @ Subang.

And and, 1st auntie which is located @ Dengkil (a small town near banting or sepang).

Baby ren chuan is tired after so many travelling. Haha.

Lying and relaxing.

Smiling ~ showing off his teeth..

Baby ren chuan wishes all healthy, happy and dreams come true!